SEX is a Form of Play (18+ Post)

He. . .llo! I feel like I've not been here in a year. How are my sweethearts doing? How was the weekend? I was with my friend (you-know-who) and we talked about sex! It's quite interesting to find an angle to write about on this kinda thing. :)

Sex is a Form of Play

What is sex? Sex is a form of play. And, might I say, it's the best form of play ever. Lol. Well, I believe so. I actually have an issue with those people (theologians) who make us think sex is an uptight thing. They turn sex into something totally functional and designed only for procreation. They even think talking about sex is unholy. They turn me off, and I'm sure they turn a lot of people off too. Mtchww!

No wonder so many people have problems with taking the church seriously. I mean, why would they? Those theologians don't help them believe Christianity can be free-ing. For crying out loud, "where the Spirit is, there is fullness of Joy and liberty."

When will the "spiritual" Bible-scholars understand the joy of having sex for enjoyment? Why can't they see how important playing is in sex and how important it is to keep it real? Is it that two people cannot come together and play together - to just have fun?

Funnily enough, it's not just the theologians who are responsible for taking the fun out of sex. Some modern scientists are to blame too. Those self-proclaimed enlightened psychologists and sociologists who write articles and appear on TV are not even helping matters. Mehn, it's so sad.

While the theologians make us think sex is mechanical, serious and uptight. The modern social people make us think it's cheap, available and dirty. This is so wrong!

Can you tell what happened here? :s

Sex is sacred. Yes, I agree. Sex is overrated. Yes, I agree. Sex should be fun. Yes, I totally agree and that's why I'm writing now. I'm not about to tell you how to make it fun. Nope. What do I even know? All I can say is to make sure your partner is having a good time. Sex should be exciting. Sex should be playful. Your partner should enjoy every second of it. I believe God will be pleased with that. :)

Aha, you're liking it, huh? Same here. BUT if you're not married, this article is not for you o. I believe the One who created sex made the rules, and the rules haven't changed yet. Sex before marriage is called fornication. By God's standard, fornication is sin. No argument, please!

Dear Married, I write for you and for my future self jhorr. You need some craziness in your marriage, and you certainly need to play. Play as much as you like and as often as possible.

Recently, it's been reported that sex is one of the major issues behind many divorces. And I'm like, "how?!" "why?!"

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This might not be so appropriate for a Monday's post but it's nice to ease the tension here.

*whispers* I can't wait to play when I get married. It will be that rough. Shhh. . .

Sex is a beautiful thing. Let's not paint it ugly. Hope you catch my drift?  ;)

Have a fabulous week.


Written by Nwamaka Ajaegbu 
Twitter: @Amakamedia
Email: amakamedia@yahoo.com

Heart Rays . . .giving out  the light.