This question is for the guys, you get back from work and you find her crying. It doesn't matter what had happened. You just saw her crying. What would you do?
Ok, here are few answers I got:
- "How would crying solve whatever problem?"
- Many outright 'No's
- "I would pass a bowl"
I chose not to ask whether men are romantic or not because it is a common question. "Would you cry if you saw her crying?" is an indirect way of puting it out. I don't want to give a conclusion yet. *lips sealed*
Ladies, you might want to teach the guys how to be romantic. What would you like him to do if he saw you crying?
Let's share!
Posted by Nwamaka Ajaegbu
Twitter: @Amakamedia
Email: heartrayswithamakamedia@yahoo.com
12 comments:
Most Nigerian men weren't taught to be romantic from childhood.
If you and your man have been together for any length of time you know that he’s not a mind reader. He can’t even anticipate what you’d like for dinner, let alone know when you need or want him to be romantic. If you get angry with him because you expected him to be romantic and he wasn’t, you’ll be setting yourself up for an argument. Without the proper guidance from you, he won’t know what your expectations are.
What are you trying to say? @KayCeeBlunt
OK, thanks Samuel. But that doesn't answer the question. What would you do if you saw her crying? Let's assume she's got no expectation at that moment.
I will even slap you. Why you go dey cry? romantic ko ronance ni!
when you find me crying, just hold me. Don't say a word. Hold me so close and let your love surround me.
I'm saying we are trying to be romantic. It is not in our culture to be romantic. Besides, a woman's definition of "romantic" is way dfrnt from d man. For instance, flowers n chocolate will make a woman say "oh! he's so romantic!" We don't think like dat.
So you're saying, it is not natural for a Nigerian guy to be romantic. Huh? I actually do know some romantic guys. I only needed to know what you'd do if you'd seen her crying. Is that so hard to answer? Kaycee, you're dodging this question with style o. lol
Thanks Bukky. Nothing says it quite like a hug!
"slap"? Just so you know, the "her" in this question refers to a lady. smh...
If Am the one,I'll get close to her - cuddle her and place her head on my shoulder, dry her tears,ask her why she's crying n then console her
If Am the one,I'll get close to her - cuddle her and place her head on my shoulder, dry her tears,ask her why she's crying n then console her
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