Love Can Be Nurtured
LOVE is humorously defined as "A feeling you feel when you are feeling something you've never felt before". Basically, love is having something special in your heart for someone. It is a feeling of intimacy.
Above all the definitions of LOVE, one word stands out for me - COMMITMENT. Love is committing yourself to someone or something (a dream, a cause or a vision) you care about. You cannot be in love if you are not willing to do something about it.
Some people say: "love just happens." I disagree. Love doesn't just happen. You have DECIDE to let love. You have to make it reign in your relationship, marriage, and life in general.
Love can be nurtured to grow. It can become a powerful uniting force. Your relationship will succeed when you delibrately commit yourself to making it work.
1. Love yourself, celebrate yourself.
2. Develop strong confidence. Believe in your dreams, and your vocation.
3. Be a cheerful giver. Giving is an attribute of love.
4. Develop a charming, trendy dress sense. Work on your looks, body language and posture.
5. Improve on your communication skills. Be excellent in your speech. Be articulate.
6. Always radiate high intelligence.
7. Develop a calm, peaceful and joyful personality. You don't have to be loud.
8. Be God-centered in your choices, actions and lifestyle.
Love is work. You have to keep the fire burning, if not, the flames will just fly away ni.
February is the month of LOVE. It will be amazing to have every heart radiating with love.
How are you nurturing your love?
Posted by Nwamaka Ajaegbu
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