Dear Diary, He Is Free To Bring Any Woman Home

Last month, I visited my husband's village for the first time ever. It was quite an interesting experience. I discovered that I could be a village girl if the need arises. Lol.

The Village Girl

Many women tend to struggle with a bit of impostor syndrome. Sometimes, we feel like a fraud or that we’re not “good enough” in comparison to others. Some of us have worked it out while some of us are still working it out.

Then comes the right guy who will be your ‘supporter.’ He'll walk with you to work it through. He’ll make you feel like anything is possible; and you’ll want to become the best version of yourself to make you and him proud.

When the Spirit breathes on me, I will write an article titled '5 Ways To Bring Out The Best In Your Wife' but for now meet Nwamaka — the bride of Mazi Onyekachi of Amagbor autonomous community in Ihitte, Ezinihitte Mbaise LGA of Imo state, Nigeria 😁

I am hunting for the woman I have not yet become. I desire to be everything a godly woman can be to her godly husband. . .

His friend.

His date.

His wife.

His full-course meal.

His snack.

His help.

His partner.

And even his village girl if he wants one 🤣

He only has to let me know which kind of woman he wants to find at home. He is free to let her show up.

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Jokes aside. I find myself humbled and grateful that I married a man who can help me see the less beautiful parts of who I am and love me enough to stand by my side as I work to address them — a man who is willing to help me do the work.

Kachi is helping me preserve and build upon the beautiful parts of who I am and he’s helping me see the things that should be paid more attention to — for our lives and marriage — helping me find the courage and strength to push on and press forward.

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I know it's hard to see the talent buried so deep inside someone (even he or she does not know it is there) but having someone who can both see and harness it, is a blessing.

Today, I am grateful for every woman he is bringing out of me.

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To those who desire marriage; Relax. God's got this. He created the concept of marriage, so trust Him to perfect this area of your life.

Stay inspired.

Stay positive.

Stay be-you-tiful.

Written by Nwamaka Ajaegbu 

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