Finding True Love After A Terrible Heartbreak

First things first. If you want to fall in love after a hard and depressing breakup, you’re going to first have to come to terms with it. That means you need to fully accept the breakup, no matter how much you miss this person. 

Happy New Month Sweetheart! I just had to put that first paragraph out there. Hope you are doing great this lovely Sunday?

Finding Love Again

This is meant to be a style post but as I continued to write, I found myself gravitating towards helping a friend who recently broke up with her fiancé. It was a huge shock.

There is nothing I'd say to you right now that will make you magically forget your ex, but there are practical things you MUST do if you ever want to fall in love with another person again. Here’s a short list of things that you must do:

1. Stop stalking Your Ex
2. Avoid reminiscing on old times
3. Find a new hobby
4. Dedicate yourself to work
5. Spend more time with God
6. Trust that you are deserving of true love

Let's shed a little light on three points out of those six:

• Avoid Thinking About Your Ex

You can't rewrite history or completely wipe out all memories of your ex. But you’ve got to make sure that whatever you do, your ex is not hanging around your mind for a long time. Not speaking or communicating with your ex is the obvious thing to do,

Find positive ways to release emotions. Write, draw, create, join a charity group, do something to pour out. You could also pick up a new hobby or hang out with friends.

• Find A New Hobby

Along the lines of #1, you need to find something new that you are passionate about. Have you ever wanted to do something but never got a chance to do it? Is it money, time, or are you just too scared? Now is the best time to do it and enjoy life. Don’t worry about anything else. Take the plunge!

Is there something extra you could be doing in school or your work? I know, the absolute last thing you want to do right now is do your work, but maybe it’s not such a bad idea to do so.

• Give Love Another Chance

Just because heartbreak may feel like the end of the world, the good news is the pain won't last forever - and it certainly won't keep you from falling in love again.

I know you probably have a “type” of person that you could ideally fall in love with, but that doesn’t mean you should burn your bridges. Take a chance! Who knows what could happen?

Whenever someone new shows interest in you, pray about it. As long as you are at peace with yourself and God, go for it!

Note this: Not all relationships will lead to marriage. I said so much in my book, He Wasn't My Husband.

So there you have it, these are things you can do to optimize your chances of falling in love again with another person. Take this from someone who had been greatly heartbroken over and over again before eventually finding her Perfect Match.

Like I mentioned earlier, this was meant to be a Sunday Style post, permit me to post some pictures I took with Kachi yesterday. Thanks. ☺

And that is me. We were heading out to shoot an episode of the MACH Show when we decided to take a few pictures. We'll talk about our shirts and show some other time. 

Till then, read 5 Pointers To Choosing Your Perfect Match.

Stay inspired.

Stay positive.

Stay safe.

Written by Nwamaka Onyekachi

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